When I choose to think something, or someone else is to blame for the way that I’m feeling, I’m not in a loving mindset. Crap! Today I’m being asked not to be a victim and that is one of my biggest default settings. Lol. But when I’m being a victim or believing that I’m the victim of circumstances, that’s not loving to myself. it continues to allow me to fester about what’s going on. When I do that, I spin round and round in my mind and the upset continues every time I blame that circumstance on someone else or something else. It’s time to flip the script and choose a loving mindset!